In any event, after she left, she went to "Gracies" house (AKA Gracie at ATO.) From what I understand the ATO helps woman flee their abusive husbands as well as offer adoption "support". So, the only way for Ruby to enlist their help was to fabricate stories of abuse, stories that my father was abusing her, which she did.

So, in the end, she left her husband, her four children, her six grandchildren to be a lesbian and lead her life the way she see's fit. She blamed everyone but where the blame really lies, at her own feet. She left just days before my brothers wedding, her only son, did she care? Nope. She cared for no one but herself and the ATO helped her do all of this. Is this a support group? I don't think so.

The ATO helped to hide her when she'd stolen my fathers truck, they accepted her story based on nothing but her sick, twisted lies and didn't even bother to find out the truth. They didn't bother to ask any one of us what REALLY happened. How can you belive one woman when you have ten other people telling the same story? But that's exactly what the ATO did.

I emailed them, my sister and my brother emailed them and not just one of them, we emailed the entire staff. But, rather than investigate, or look deeper for the truth, they choose to believe her, they stood behind one of their own. It sickens me to think that had she not have pushed me out of this group to begin with, I would still be a member. God really does work in mysterious ways doesn't He?