Anti-abortion
or pro-choice, it doesn't really matter which side of that
battle that you stand on. I, myself, am on the anti-abortion
side so when people ask me why I would decide to write
this article, it was somewhat of a tough question to answer.
The main reason I decided to write this article is because
in part, I know what Jane Doe suffered through. I know
first hand, how horrible, mean and terrifying that town
can be. I grew up there, I used to know most of the people
mentioned in this article, in fact, dated one or two of
them. I thank God everyday that I was able to move out
of that town or it may have killed me. I moved away when
I was 17 years old with my mom to another state. I too
was pregnant as a teenager, though I was 16 when I got
pregnant and turned 17 ten days after my daughter was born.
I had never even considered abortion so I did not go through
the torment that Jane and her family did.
But
my heart went out to Jane who did not make the decision
to have an abortion lightly. It took her alot of soul searching
and in the end probably would have been the right thing
for her do. She thought about everything, school, college,
a career, and then later on ... a family. She knew at the
time that she just was not ready to be a mother. But that
town, Blair, Nebraska, made certain that she would have
that child and support that child regardless of what her
choice was. They took away her rights as a child, as a
woman and as an American citizen.
I
don't know what happened to Jane or where she is today.
Her daughter would now be 8 years old and more than likely
the apple of her mama's eye. When she grows older and learns
what happened to her mom, she won't resent her or hate
her for it. More than likely she will be like her mom and
be glad that she stood up for what she believed in, she
will be proud that her mom was strong and didn't let people
push her around or walk on her. She will love her mom with
all her heart and I hope will see the Tulls for what they
really are, selfish, self-centered, ignorant people who
wanted a child that they either could not, or would not
help support.
I
do know this though, I know that wherever Jane is, she
over came the obstacles placed before her. She rose above
the standards that Blair had set for her. She is a strong,
giving, loving mother who has nothing to be ashamed of.
Most of all, I am proud that Jane made it out of Blair,
as did I. Good luck Jane and baby Jane, you are both always
in my thoughts and prayers.
Jill
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