Gary
and Amy Strouhal never thought they would be sitting at this
table in the court house being forced to sign papers relinquishing
their parental rights to their third child taken by CPS, but
they were. What brought them to this point was a long hard
fought battle in which the Strouhal's lost terribly. They
lost their children, their hopes for the future, they lost
parts of their hearts and souls the day their children were
stripped from them by CPS.
CPS removed infant son Bryce and 2 year old Stephanie from
their parents custody with the sole intention of terminating
the couples parental rights. After two agonizing years, the
case finally went to trial. For three weeks a jury would hear
about every mistake the parents had made. They would hear
criticism of the parents and their characters would be placed
under a microscope. Worst of all, their ability to care for
their children would be judged. What brought them here? How
did this happen? It all started with the Strouhal's infant
son's surgery. He became dangerously underweight after a 1999
surgery. Doctors at Cook Children's Medical Center suspected
Amy was feeding her son too quickly after the surgery.
CPS thought that their 2 year old daughter Stephanie was in
danger as well, so they removed both children from the couples
care.
Gary had not been abusive to his children, but in the eyes
of CPS, he had not protected them from his wife, who they
believed suffered from Munchausen's Syndrome by Proxy, a disorder
in which the mother intentionally causes or fabricates illnesses
in her children to gain attention. Because he didn't protect
his children from his wife, CPS declared him unfit.
Records from Cook Children's Medical Center indicate that
Amy was intentionally feeding Bryce too quickly. Nurses at
the hospital noted that Amy had seen a video on how to feed
her son through a "g-tube", a valve that goes into
the baby's stomach that is used to feed him. The Strouhal's
blame the hospital, they say their son wasn't properly diagnosed.
This wasn't a criminal trial, so the prosecuting attorney
Assistant Attorney Angela Goodwin, didn't have to prove "beyond
a reasonable doubt, she only had to provide clear and convincing
evidence. Mike Viesca insisted that the Munchausen theory
was not a primary issue in the case, " It was a case
based on children who were in danger." he said. The Munchausen
theory was indeed their central focus during the trial. It
had to be due to the fact that that was why Stephanie was
removed from the home.
However, testimony from several top noted specialists indicated
that Amy did NOT fit the the profile for a woman suffering
from Munchausen. Mark Foster preformed an evaluation on the
couple and came to this conclusion. His report states that
Amy is an unfit parent because she is narcissistic, immature
and impulsive. He also stated that she reads on an eight grade
level and performs math on a fifth grade level.
"It is likely she will have difficulty in appreciating
how her choices affect others," Foster said in his report,
" ..Amy may have to make the same mistake repeatedly
before learning from the experience." Fosters
report doesn't include any mention of Munchausen's, when testifying,
he could not say whether she fit the profile or not.
John Jeffrey, a Duncanville psychologist, discounted the Munchausen's
theory. "Amy is probably guilty of being self-centered,
strong willed, immature, impulsive with a grandiose sense
of self importance that made communicating with the doctors
more difficult than it needed to be." Because CPS based
it's theory of the disorder primarily on Bryce's weight gain
while in foster care, Jeffrey's report stated that it was
,"an alarming lack of evidence."
CPS would go on to win that fight and terminate the couples
parental rights. That wasn't good enough for them though.
Nine days after Amy gave birth to her third child, a son named
Mathew, the couple was again subpoenaed to the Johnson County
Courthouse where CPS wanted to terminate their parental rights
regarding Mathew. The CPS affidavit reads, "This child
is at extreme risk of severe physical abuse and neglect. Gary
and Amy Strouhal's parental rights were terminated on their
first two children due to Munchausen's Syndrome by Proxy."
With hands shaking and tears in her eyes, Amy knew the chances
of keeping her son were slim to none. An attorney representing
the infants best interest warned the Strouhal's that if they
contested the termination their son would be shuffled from
foster home to foster home until a permanent placement could
be found. They didn't have the money to fight the state, so
with a heavy heart, she signed the papers that would terminate
her parental rights to her newborn son Mathew.
Amy and Gary now live in Missouri. These days Amy is tending
bar instead of raising her children.
"I hope this never, never, never happens to anyone else
... but I know it will," Amy said
On June 12th, Amy had her tubes tied, she'll never have children
again. |